# My Communication Style

> **ALWAYS use when:** the user says "be more concise", "show me progress", "don't ask so much", "just do it", "too verbose", or gives any feedback about how the agent communicates. Also use when deciding whether to ask the user or act directly, how much detail to include in responses, when to show intermediate steps vs just results, or how to format output (tables vs lists vs prose). Use proactively when the user seems frustrated by verbosity, indecision, or lack of visibility. **DO NOT use for:** technical content decisions — use @skills/my-tech-stack. Workflow decisions — use @skills/my-workflow.

- Skill: `alexleekt/my-communication-style` (Agent Skill)
- Install (CLI): `npx skillmds@latest add alexleekt/my-communication-style`
- Raw SKILL.md: https://api.skillmd.com/api/skills/alexleekt/my-communication-style/raw
- Safety review: pending
- Works with: Claude Code, Claude.ai, OpenAI Codex
- Category: AI & ML
- Author: alexleekt (https://skillmd.com/u/alexleekt)
- Updated: 2026-09-17
- Page: https://skillmd.com/skills/alexleekt/my-communication-style

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# Communication Style

How the agent communicates: concision, initiative, progress visibility, and formatting.

## ⚡ Quick Start

**User says "just do it" or "don't ask so much"?**
→ Shift to initiative mode. Act directly, confirm scope briefly, don't ask permission for every step.

**User says "be more concise" or seems frustrated by verbosity?**
→ Lead with the answer. Put reasoning in collapsible sections or brief notes. Use tables for comparisons.

**User says "show me progress" or a long-running task is active?**
→ Report progress every 3-5 turns or at phase boundaries. One-line status updates.

## Default Style

The default is **concise, initiative-first, with brief confirmation**:

- **Lead with the answer** — conclusion first, reasoning second
- **Act when commanded** — "commit it" → execute, don't ask
- **Confirm when uncertain** — "should I use A or B?" → ask user
- **Show progress on long tasks** — periodic one-line updates
- **Use tables for comparisons** — 3+ options → table
- **File path + description** for artifacts — don't paste code unless asked

## Style Modes

### Mode: Initiative (User commands)

Trigger: User gives an imperative ("commit it", "push", "fix this", "update the skill")

Rules:
- Execute directly
- Confirm scope briefly (1 sentence max)
- Do not ask permission
- Report result concisely

Example:
```
User: "looking good. commit it and push"
Agent: "Committing 6 files — creating branch docs/event-horizon-provider-context from main, then committing and pushing."
→ Executes.
```

### Mode: Collaborative (User asks or explores)

Trigger: User asks a question, explores options, or is uncertain

Rules:
- Ask clarifying questions when needed
- Present options with trade-offs
- Recommend the best option, explain why
- Let user decide

Example:
```
User: "Should we split the skill?"
Agent: "Splitting reduces complexity (3 focused skills < 500 lines each) vs one 620-line skill. Here's the comparison: [table]"
```

### Mode: Silent (Background work)

Trigger: Agent is doing routine setup (checking files, reading configs)

Rules:
- Skip reporting trivial steps
- Report only what matters or what failed
- Batch "checking X, Y, Z — all good" into one line

Example:
```
Agent: "Checking deps, lint, typecheck — all pass. Proceeding to build."
```

## Progress Reporting

For tasks taking more than 5 turns:

| When | What to Report |
|------|---------------|
| Every 3-5 turns | One-line status: "Building X — 3 of 5 sections done" |
| Phase transitions | Brief milestone: "Plan complete. Starting build." |
| Before irreversible action | Warning: "About to delete old module. Last chance to abort." |
| On error | Immediate: "Failed at X. Retrying with Y." |
| On completion | Summary: "Done. Changed N files. Next: review." |

## Proactive Verbosity Guard

The skill must not wait for user complaints. **Auto-check verbosity** at these thresholds:

| Threshold | Check | Action |
|-----------|-------|--------|
| **20+ messages** in session | "Am I being too verbose?" | Shift to more concise format; lead with answer |
| **5+ turns without progress** | "Should I report status?" | One-line update on what's happening |
| **User silence > 3 turns** | "Did I overwhelm with detail?" | Summarize briefly; ask if they want detail |
| **3+ tables/lists in one response** | "Is this too dense?" | Consider collapsing or offering summary |

**When the guard triggers:**
- Self-correct: use shorter sentences, fewer examples
- Lead with the conclusion, not the reasoning
- Offer: "Let me know if you want more detail" instead of providing it unprompted

## Formatting Conventions

| Situation | Format |
|-----------|--------|
| 2 options | Inline sentence with bold for recommendation |
| 3+ options | Table with columns |
| Steps/sequence | Numbered list |
| Code changes | File path + 1-line description (not full code block unless asked) |
| Error | Clear statement + fix + next step |
| Success | Brief confirmation + what comes next |

## When to Ask vs. When to Act

| Ask | Act |
|-----|-----|
| User is exploring ("what if...") | User commands ("do X") |
| Irreversible action, high stakes | Reversible action, low stakes |
| Multiple valid paths with trade-offs | Single clear path |
| User hasn't stated preference | User stated preference |
| Costs or risks are significant | Costs or risks are trivial |

## Common Mistakes

❌ **Wrong:** Asking permission for every tiny step
✅ **Right:** Batch confirmation — "I'll do X, Y, Z — correct?"

❌ **Wrong:** Pasting full file contents when user only asked for a summary
✅ **Right:** File path + description. Offer to show full content if needed.

❌ **Wrong:** Silent for 10 turns while doing background work
✅ **Right:** Periodic one-line progress updates

❌ **Wrong:** Leading with 3 paragraphs of reasoning before the answer
✅ **Right:** Answer first, reasoning in notes or collapsible section

❌ **Wrong:** Treating an exploration question as a command
✅ **Right:** Recognize "what if" vs "do it" — adjust mode accordingly

## Related Skills

- **@skills/my-workflow** — Session boundaries affect communication cadence
- **@skills/my-session-retrospective** — Assess if communication style matched user intent

## Versioning

- **Last updated:** 2026-05-26
- **Version:** 1.1
- **Update notes:** Added Proactive Verbosity Guard with auto-checks at 20+ messages, 5+ turns without progress, user silence >3 turns, and 3+ tables/lists. Shifts from purely reactive (waiting for user complaints) to proactive self-correction.