# Give Away Your Legos

> In scaling companies, once you master a role you must hand it off and move to a bigger, messier challenge. Holding on buries you; giving away allows you to tackle bigger challenges.

- Skill: `coowoolf/give-away-your-legos` (Agent Skill)
- Install (CLI): `npx skillmds@latest add coowoolf/give-away-your-legos`
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- Author: Coowoolf (https://skillmd.com/u/coowoolf)
- Updated: 2026-09-10
- Page: https://skillmd.com/skills/coowoolf/give-away-your-legos

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# Give Away Your Legos

> "If you really want to take advantage, both learning to give away what you've gotten good at and move on to the next shiny pile of Legos." — Molly Graham

## What It Is

In scaling companies, jobs are like piles of Legos. Once you build a tower (master a role), you must **give it to someone else** and move on to a bigger, messier pile. Holding onto your old role buries you; giving it away allows you to tackle bigger challenges.

## When To Use

- Company is **doubling in size**
- Feeling **territorial** about a new hire taking responsibilities
- Sensing **career stagnation** despite company growth
- Need to evaluate if you're **scaling with the company**

## Core Principles

### 1. Scale Yourself
You must grow as fast as the company or you become obsolete.

### 2. Embrace the New Mess
Moving to a new, undefined problem is a **promotion**, not a demotion.

### 3. Manage "Bob"
Externalize your ego/fear (name it "Bob"). Wait 2 weeks before acting on negative emotions about change.

## The Mental Model

```
CAREER PROGRESSION IN HYPERGROWTH:

Year 1: Build a house 🏠
        → Master the role
        
Year 2: Give away the house
        → Hire someone to own it
        → Move to building a neighborhood 🏘️
        
Year 3: Give away the neighborhood
        → Move to building a city 🌆
```

## How To Apply

```
STEP 1: Identify Your "Tower"
└── What are you really good at now?
└── What would a new hire do if they had your job?

STEP 2: Hire Your Replacement
└── Recruit someone who can own this
└── Train them to be better than you at it

STEP 3: Find the Next Mess
└── What's broken that no one owns?
└── What would you do if you were "re-hired" today?

STEP 4: Wait 2 Weeks Before Complaining
└── Notice the "Bob" voice of ego
└── Let emotions settle before judging
```

## Common Mistakes

❌ Believing you are the **only person** who can do a specific task

❌ Viewing handover as a **loss of status**

❌ Staying in a comfortable role while the company outgrows you

## Real-World Example

At Facebook, Graham had to re-hire herself every 3 weeks, eventually moving from HR to Mobile—a role she was unqualified for but learned by diving into the mess.

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*Source: Molly Graham, Lenny's Podcast*