# Prospect Pipeline Manager

> Tracks dating prospects with status, next actions, and prevents fixation on unavailable options. Use when managing dating life strategically and avoiding fixation. Keywords: dating, pipeline, prospects, tracking, relationship, strategy

- Skill: `dreydrey9000/prospect-pipeline-manager` (Agent Skill)
- Install (CLI): `npx skillmds@latest add dreydrey9000/prospect-pipeline-manager`
- Raw SKILL.md: https://api.skillmd.com/api/skills/dreydrey9000/prospect-pipeline-manager/raw
- Safety review: pending
- Works with: Claude Code, Claude.ai, OpenAI Codex
- Category: DevOps & Infra
- Author: Dreydrey9000 (https://skillmd.com/u/dreydrey9000)
- Updated: 2026-09-22
- Page: https://skillmd.com/skills/dreydrey9000/prospect-pipeline-manager

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# Prospect Pipeline Manager

Track dating prospects strategically and prevent the common trap of fixating on unavailable options.

## When to Use

- Managing multiple dating prospects
- Checking pipeline health
- Identifying fixation patterns
- Planning dating activities strategically

## Healthy Pipeline Structure

| Stage | Count | Definition |
|-------|-------|------------|
| Active | 2-3 max | Dating regularly, seeing each other |
| Warming | 2-3 | Building rapport, not yet dated |
| Prospects | Unlimited | New/early stage conversations |
| Out | Archive | Clearly not interested |

## Stage Timeouts

When to reassess or move to Out:

- **Prospect → Warming**: 7 days without progress
- **Warming → Active**: 14 days without a date
- **Active → Dating**: 21 days without escalation/definition

If timeout is reached without movement, either re-engage or archive.

## Fixation Indicators

Warning signs you're over-invested in one person:

- Only one person in Active stage
- Texting one person 3x more than others
- Declining opportunities to meet new people
- Making plans around one person's availability
- Checking their social media repeatedly
- Analyzing their every message
- Only thinking about one person

## Output Format

**Pipeline Status**:
- Active: [list with last contact]
- Warming: [list with status]
- Prospects: [list]
- Out: [archived]

**Health Assessment**: Healthy / Needs Attention / Critical

**Stalled Alerts**:
- [Name] - [days stalled] - [recommendation]

**Fixation Warning** (if applicable):
- Who you're fixating on
- Evidence of fixation
- Reality check

**Priority Actions This Week**:
1. [Action with specific person]
2. [Action]
3. [Action]

**Sourcing Recommendations** (if pipeline thin):
- Where to meet new prospects
- Activities that align with your interests

## Health Thresholds

| Status | Criteria |
|--------|----------|
| Healthy | 2+ Active, 2+ Warming, no fixation |
| Needs Attention | <2 Active OR fixation signs OR stalled prospects |
| Critical | 0-1 Active AND no warming OR severe fixation |

## The Math Truth

**Healthy dating requires options.** Not to be manipulative, but because:
- Options reduce neediness
- Options provide comparison data
- Options prevent settling
- Options keep you from over-investing early

## Integration

Works with:
- **Interest Decoder**: Evaluate if prospects belong in pipeline
- **Text Game Optimizer**: Improve messaging with prospects
- **Already Going Method**: Invite prospects without neediness