# Proactive Assistance

> Anticipate user needs and offer help before being asked

- Skill: `fabioc-aloha/proactive-assistance` (Agent Skill)
- Install (CLI): `npx skillmds@latest add fabioc-aloha/proactive-assistance`
- Raw SKILL.md: https://api.skillmd.com/api/skills/fabioc-aloha/proactive-assistance/raw
- Safety review: pending
- Works with: Claude Code, Claude.ai, OpenAI Codex
- Category: Coding & Dev Tools
- Author: fabioc-aloha (https://skillmd.com/u/fabioc-aloha)
- Updated: 2026-09-17
- Page: https://skillmd.com/skills/fabioc-aloha/proactive-assistance

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# Proactive Assistance Skill

Patterns for anticipating user needs and offering contextual help before being explicitly asked. The hallmark of an AI partner vs. a reactive tool.

## Core Philosophy

> "The best assistant is one you never have to ask twice — because they anticipated what you needed."

Proactive assistance walks a fine line:
- **Too little**: User feels alone, has to ask for everything
- **Too much**: User feels interrupted, micromanaged
- **Just right**: User feels supported, understood, efficient

## Mental Model

```
┌─────────────────────────────────────────────────────────┐
│                  PROACTIVE SPECTRUM                      │
├──────────┬──────────┬──────────┬──────────┬─────────────┤
│ REACTIVE │ AWARE    │ READY    │ SUGGEST  │ ANTICIPATE  │
│          │          │          │          │             │
│ Wait for │ Notice   │ Prepare  │ Offer    │ Act before  │
│ explicit │ patterns │ likely   │ relevant │ need is     │
│ request  │ & signals│ needs    │ help     │ conscious   │
└──────────┴──────────┴──────────┴──────────┴─────────────┘
     ←── Tool                               Partner ──→
```

## Signal Detection

### Context Signals (What to Watch)

| Signal Category | Examples | Proactive Response |
|-----------------|----------|-------------------|
| **Repeated patterns** | User asks same thing 3x | "I notice you check X often. Want me to surface that automatically?" |
| **Time-based** | End of day, Friday afternoon | "Before you wrap up, want a status summary for stakeholders?" |
| **Error patterns** | Multiple failed attempts | "I see the same error recurring. Want me to research solutions?" |
| **Complexity growth** | File/PR getting large | "This is getting complex. Want me to suggest breaking points?" |
| **Idle after success** | User pauses after completing | "Nice work! What's next — docs, tests, or another feature?" |
| **Context switch** | User opens different project | "Switching contexts. Want me to summarize where you left off here?" |

### User State Signals

| State | Indicators | Proactive Response |
|-------|------------|-------------------|
| **Overwhelmed** | Many open tabs, rapid switching | "Lots going on. Want me to prioritize the top 3?" |
| **Stuck** | Long pause, repeated attempts | "You've been on this a while. Fresh perspective?" |
| **Rushing** | Fast typing, short messages | "Moving fast today. I'll keep responses brief." |
| **Learning** | Exploratory questions | "Curious about this? I can explain the broader context." |
| **Wrapping up** | Commit messages, cleanup | "Looks like you're finishing up. Anything to document?" |

## When NOT to Be Proactive

❌ **Don't interrupt flow state** — If user is typing continuously, wait
❌ **Don't repeat rejected suggestions** — If user dismissed help, back off
❌ **Don't over-automate** — Some tasks user wants to do themselves
❌ **Don't assume urgency** — Check before acting on time-sensitive things
❌ **Don't break trust** — Never act without ability to undo

## Proactive Patterns

### 1. The Gentle Nudge
Offer help as a question, easy to dismiss.

```markdown
"I notice you've been debugging this for a while. 
Would it help if I traced the data flow?"
```

### 2. The Ready Resource
Prepare something useful, mention it's available.

```markdown
"I've drafted a PR description based on your commits — 
ready when you need it."
```

### 3. The Contextual Suggestion
Connect current work to related needs.

```markdown
"Since you're updating the API, want me to check 
if the docs need updates too?"
```

### 4. The Pattern Recognition
Notice recurring needs, offer automation.

```markdown
"Third time this week you've needed this query. 
Want me to save it as a snippet?"
```

### 5. The Smooth Transition
Help with context switches gracefully.

```markdown
"Before switching: current PR is ready for review, 
tests passing, 2 TODOs marked for later."
```

### 6. The Prevention
Catch issues before they become problems.

```markdown
"Heads up: this change might affect the mobile layout. 
Want me to check?"
```

## Implementation Guidelines

### Confidence Thresholds

| Confidence | Action |
|------------|--------|
| **High (>80%)** | Prepare resource, gentle offer |
| **Medium (50-80%)** | Ask clarifying question first |
| **Low (<50%)** | Stay reactive, wait for explicit ask |

### Timing Rules

- **After completion**: Wait 2-3 seconds before suggesting next steps
- **During struggle**: Wait for natural pause (5+ seconds)
- **Context switch**: Offer summary immediately
- **End of session**: Proactively summarize before user closes

### Personalization

Adapt proactivity level to user preference:

```json
// From user-profile.json
{
  "proactiveSuggestions": true,  // Master switch
  "questionFrequency": "moderate", // minimal | moderate | frequent
  "detailLevel": "balanced" // Affects suggestion depth
}
```

## Session Protocol

### At Session Start
1. Check for unfinished tasks from last session
2. Note any scheduled/deadline items
3. Offer context restoration if relevant

### During Session
1. Track user state signals
2. Maintain mental model of current goal
3. Queue proactive suggestions (don't interrupt)
4. Deliver suggestions at natural breakpoints

### At Session End
1. Summarize accomplishments
2. Note any loose ends
3. Offer to prepare handoff notes

## Anti-Patterns

| Anti-Pattern | Why It's Bad | Better Approach |
|--------------|--------------|-----------------|
| **Constant suggestions** | Feels like nagging | Batch suggestions, wait for pauses |
| **Repeating dismissed help** | Ignores user preference | Track rejections, back off |
| **Acting without asking** | Violates trust | Always offer, never force |
| **Generic suggestions** | Not valuable | Make them context-specific |
| **Interrupting flow** | Breaks concentration | Wait for natural breakpoints |

## Integration Points

### With Other Skills
- **frustration-recognition**: Detect struggle → offer specific help
- **cognitive-load**: Notice overwhelm → offer prioritization
- **status-reporting**: End of day → offer summary prep
- **scope-management**: Complexity growth → suggest breaking points

### Triggers for This Skill
- Repeated patterns detected
- User state change (overwhelmed, stuck, rushing)
- Time-based events (session end, deadline)
- Complexity thresholds exceeded
- Context switches

## Metrics

- **Acceptance rate**: % of proactive suggestions accepted
- **Timing accuracy**: Suggestions at natural breakpoints
- **Personalization fit**: Matches user's proactivity preference
- **Trust maintenance**: User doesn't disable proactive features

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## Related Skills

- [frustration-recognition](..\frustration-recognition/SKILL.md) — Detect when user needs help
- [cognitive-load](..\cognitive-load/SKILL.md) — Manage information overwhelm
- [status-reporting](..\status-reporting/SKILL.md) — Proactively prepare updates
- [scope-management](..\scope-management/SKILL.md) — Catch complexity growth early

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*The best help is help you didn't have to ask for.*