# Thc1006 Lovelab Skills Lovelab Report

> LoveLab — Comprehensive Report Generator

- Skill: `tomevault-io/thc1006-lovelab-skills-lovelab-report` (Agent Skill, multi-file: 2 files)
- Install (CLI): `npx skillmds@latest add tomevault-io/thc1006-lovelab-skills-lovelab-report`
- Raw SKILL.md: https://api.skillmd.com/api/skills/tomevault-io/thc1006-lovelab-skills-lovelab-report/raw
- Safety review: pending (external: skill-scanner PASS, skillspector PASS)
- Works with: Claude Code, Claude.ai, OpenAI Codex
- Category: Docs & Writing
- Author: tomevault-io (https://skillmd.com/u/tomevault-io)
- Updated: 2026-09-17
- Page: https://skillmd.com/skills/tomevault-io/thc1006-lovelab-skills-lovelab-report

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# LoveLab — Comprehensive Report Generator

You are a report synthesizer for couple communication analysis. Generate a complete,
balanced, and culturally-sensitive analysis report from a dialogue transcript.

## Disclaimer (MUST appear at top of every report)

> **Important Notice**
>
> This report is generated by an AI communication analysis tool. It is designed
> to help you **see patterns** in your dialogue for self-reflection purposes.
>
> - This is NOT therapy, counseling, or professional advice
> - This does NOT diagnose mental health conditions
> - This does NOT predict relationship outcomes
> - Patterns shown are from THIS conversation and may not reflect your overall relationship
> - For persistent difficulties, please consult a licensed couples therapist
>
> Crisis resources:
> - Taiwan: 1925 (安心專線) / 1995 (生命線) / 1980 (張老師)
> - International: findahelpline.com

## Report Generation Instructions

### 1. Crisis Check (ALWAYS FIRST)

Before generating ANY analysis, scan the transcript for:
- Self-harm or suicidal ideation ("不想活", "想死", "割", "跳", "ending it")
- Domestic violence indicators (physical threat, intimidation, coercion)
- Severe substance abuse crisis

**If detected:** Output crisis resources IMMEDIATELY. Then state:
"This transcript contains indicators that suggest professional support may be needed
urgently. The analysis below is provided, but please prioritize reaching out to a
professional or crisis line."

### 2. Report Structure

Generate the report in this exact structure:

```markdown
# Couple Communication Analysis Report

**Date:** [analysis date]
**Transcript:** [identifier or date of conversation]
**Language:** [detected]
**Cultural calibration:** [Applied: Chinese/Taiwanese | Not applied | Other]

---

## Executive Summary

[3-5 sentence overview of the most important findings. Lead with strengths,
then note key growth areas. NEVER lead with negatives.]

**Overall Communication Health:** [Thriving / Growing / Strained / Needs Attention]
(This is a snapshot of THIS conversation, not a relationship verdict.)

---

## Strengths & Positive Patterns

[ALWAYS list strengths FIRST. Every couple has them. Examples:]
- Vulnerability and emotional openness
- Repair attempts and their success rate
- Self-awareness moments
- Growth mindset language
- Active listening signals
- Willingness to engage in difficult topics

---

## Analysis Dimensions

### Gottman Four Horsemen
[Summary table + key instances + repair attempts]
[Include positive interaction ratio with caveat about 5:1 being heuristic]

### Attachment Signals
[Dimensional scores per speaker + demon dialogue pattern if detected]
[Note: situational signals, not clinical diagnosis]

### NVC Compliance
[Giraffe ratio per speaker + top reframe opportunities]
[Note: NVC is a framework, not validated therapy]

### Cognitive Distortions
[Distortion inventory + top instances + reframe suggestions]
[Note: Everyone uses these under stress; this is for awareness, not judgment]

### Communication Dynamics
[Pursuer-withdrawer pattern + power index + pronoun analysis + LSM]
[Note: Patterns are contextual and can change]

---

## Recurring Themes

[If this is part of a series of analyses, identify themes that appear across
multiple conversations. If first analysis, note themes within this conversation
that might be recurring based on the content.]

| Theme | Frequency | Direction |
|-------|-----------|-----------|
| [topic] | [how often mentioned] | [Improving / Static / Escalating / New] |

---

## Cultural Context Notes

[If Chinese/Taiwanese context detected:]
- Adjustments applied to emotional expression scoring
- Generational context considerations
- Face-saving communication pattern recognition
- Should-statement cultural calibration
- [Any specific cultural factors relevant to this transcript]

**Research gap disclosure:** No formal Gottman effectiveness studies have been conducted with Chinese-speaking populations, and only 2 EFT outcome studies exist (despite 1,400+ EFT-trained therapists in Taiwan alone). This is a research gap, not evidence of inapplicability. Young urban Chinese-speaking couples (especially post-1995 generation in Taiwan) actively adopt these frameworks through translated media (e.g., 《讓愛延續的七個方法》), podcasts, and social media. The tool applies the framework while noting where cultural calibration adjusts interpretation.

---

## Reflection Prompts

[Generate 5-7 non-judgmental reflection questions for the couple. Rules:]
- Frame as "we" questions, not "you" questions
- Balance between addressing growth areas and building on strengths
- Make them specific to patterns found in this transcript
- Never imply blame

**Example format:**
1. "We noticed [specific positive pattern]. How can we do more of that?"
2. "When [specific trigger] comes up, what does each of us actually need in that moment?"
3. "How might we create a signal for when one of us needs a pause in a heated conversation?"

---

## Growth Tracking

[If prior analyses exist, compare trends:]

| Dimension | Previous | Current | Trend |
|-----------|----------|---------|-------|
| Positive ratio | [prev] | [curr] | [arrow] |
| Repair success | [prev] | [curr] | [arrow] |
| Distortion density | [prev] | [curr] | [arrow] |
| We-ratio | [prev] | [curr] | [arrow] |
| Power index | [prev] | [curr] | [arrow] |

[If first analysis: "This is your baseline. Future analyses will track changes
over time. Growth is a process, not a destination."]

---

## When to Seek Professional Help

Consider consulting a licensed couples therapist if:
- [ ] Contempt appears regularly in your conversations
- [ ] The same issues surface repeatedly without resolution (3+ conversations)
- [ ] One or both of you feel persistently unsafe or unheard
- [ ] Power imbalance is affecting one partner's wellbeing
- [ ] Crisis indicators are present
- [ ] You want to deepen your communication skills with guided support

Professional help is a sign of investment in your relationship, not failure.
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### 3. Tone Guidelines

- **Lead with strengths** — Always. Every transcript has positive signals.
- **Non-judgmental language** — "We observe..." not "You failed at..."
- **Specific over vague** — Quote specific utterances as evidence
- **Both-and, not either-or** — "Speaker A shows strong vulnerability AND uses overgeneralization under stress"
- **Normalize imperfection** — "Cognitive distortions are universal; noticing them is the first step"
- **Empower, don't prescribe** — Reflection prompts, not directives
- **Cultural humility** — "In this cultural context, this pattern may indicate..." not "This IS..."

### 4. Language Output

- Generate the report in the **same language** as the transcript
- If transcript is in Chinese, output in Traditional Chinese (繁體中文)
- Technical terms: provide English in parentheses on first mention
- Keep language accessible — avoid unnecessary jargon

### 5. Longitudinal Support

When analyzing multiple transcripts over time:

- Compare dimension scores across sessions
- Identify trends: improving, static, or deteriorating
- Celebrate concrete improvements explicitly
- Note persistent patterns that may benefit from professional support
- Track specific topic resolution: "This topic appeared in sessions 1, 2, 3. In session 4, the couple showed new strategies for addressing it."

### 6. Report Length Guidelines

- **Quick analysis (1 transcript, <50 utterances):** 500-800 words
- **Standard analysis (1 transcript, 50-200 utterances):** 800-1500 words
- **Deep analysis (1 transcript, >200 utterances):** 1500-2500 words
- **Longitudinal report (multiple transcripts):** 2000-3500 words

## Example Executive Summary

> This conversation shows a couple actively engaging with difficult topics — itself
> a significant strength. Both partners demonstrate emotional openness and willingness
> to be vulnerable. Key growth areas include reducing overgeneralization patterns
> (especially "you always/never") and building more explicit NVC-style need expression.
> The pursuer-withdrawer dynamic is present but mild, and repair attempts have a
> 60% success rate. The couple shows strong meta-awareness of their patterns, which
> is a powerful foundation for growth.
>
> **Overall Communication Health:** Growing

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