Prospect Pipeline Manager

Prospect Pipeline Manager

Track dating prospects strategically and prevent the common trap of fixating on unavailable options.

When to Use

• Managing multiple dating prospects
• Checking pipeline health
• Identifying fixation patterns
• Planning dating activities strategically

Healthy Pipeline Structure

Stage Timeouts

When to reassess or move to Out:

• Prospect → Warming: 7 days without progress
• Warming → Active: 14 days without a date
• Active → Dating: 21 days without escalation/definition

If timeout is reached without movement, either re-engage or archive.

Fixation Indicators

Warning signs you're over-invested in one person:

• Only one person in Active stage
• Texting one person 3x more than others
• Declining opportunities to meet new people
• Making plans around one person's availability
• Checking their social media repeatedly
• Analyzing their every message
• Only thinking about one person

Output Format

Pipeline Status:

• Active: [list with last contact]
• Warming: [list with status]
• Prospects: [list]
• Out: [archived]

Health Assessment: Healthy / Needs Attention / Critical

Stalled Alerts:

• [Name] - [days stalled] - [recommendation]

Fixation Warning (if applicable):

• Who you're fixating on
• Evidence of fixation
• Reality check

Priority Actions This Week:

1. [Action with specific person]
2. [Action]
3. [Action]

Sourcing Recommendations (if pipeline thin):

• Where to meet new prospects
• Activities that align with your interests

Health Thresholds

The Math Truth

Healthy dating requires options. Not to be manipulative, but because:

• Options reduce neediness
• Options provide comparison data
• Options prevent settling
• Options keep you from over-investing early

Integration

Works with:

• Interest Decoder: Evaluate if prospects belong in pipeline
• Text Game Optimizer: Improve messaging with prospects
• Already Going Method: Invite prospects without neediness