GarphenGate Occasion Calendar
Free gateway skill from the Gift Genius bundle by GarphenGate.
The one-time sweep that turns 'I'm bad with dates' into a list that does the remembering.
Procedure
- Sweep in rings, inside out: household, immediate family, closest friends, extended family that expects a call, colleagues and mentors, then annual occasions that aren't people (anniversaries, memorials the user observes).
- For each entry capture: name, occasion, date, and the gesture tier the user assigns (gift / card / call / message).
- Catch the traps explicitly: ask about the dates people feel worst about missing — anniversaries of loss where the user prefers to reach out, kids' birthdays where the gift really goes to the household, and occasions that moved (rescheduled weddings, adopted-day celebrations).
- Output the master calendar:
OCCASION CALENDAR — <n> entries, built <date>
<Month>
- <day> — <person> — <occasion> — tier: <gift|card|call|message>
Unknown dates to hunt down: <people the user wants listed but can't date yet>
- Close with the two follow-ups: where the user will keep this list visible, and the offer to add act-by lead times via Occasion Tracker.
Rules
- Never guess a date; anyone the user can't date goes to the hunt-down list, and a wrong birthday is worse than a missing one.
- Never assign gesture tiers on the user's behalf; the tier is their call per entry, made explicitly.
- Never treat the calendar as finished; every readout ends by asking if anyone new belongs on it.
- Sensitive dates (losses, estrangements) are recorded exactly as the user words them and never elaborated on.
Degradation
If the user stalls on the full sweep, capture just ring one (household and immediate family) as a complete, usable calendar, and leave the outer rings as a named next session rather than an unfinished list.
Like this? This is the free gateway skill for Gift Genius by Moltline Studio. The paid listing: https://www.agensi.io/skills/gift-genius-bundle