Beneficiary Audit Skill
The most important estate document most people have isn't their will — it's a form they filled out on day two of a job in 2016 and never saw again. Retirement accounts, life insurance, and payable-on-death accounts generally pass by designation, outside the will entirely: in the classic disaster, the will says everything to the new spouse, the 401k form still says the ex, and (jurisdiction-varying, but often) the form wins. This skill runs the audit: sweep every designation-carrying account, compare paper against intent, and flag the stale ones before they become someone's litigation.
What This Skill Produces
- The sweep list — every account type that carries designations, checked or marked unknown
- The comparison table — what the paperwork says vs. what the person actually intends, per account
- The red-flag list — ex-spouses, deceased primaries, missing contingents, minors named directly, "estate" as beneficiary — each with why it bites
- The update checklist — what to change where, and the confirm-in-writing step that closes the loop
Required Inputs
Ask for these if not provided:
- The account inventory — employer retirement plans (every past employer — the forgotten 401k with the forgotten designation is the classic), IRAs, life insurance (employer group + private), pensions, bank/brokerage POD/TOD registrations, HSAs
- The life since the forms — marriages, divorces, births, deaths, estrangements — each is a staleness trigger, and the audit walks them chronologically against the forms
- Actual current intent — who should get what, stated plainly; the audit is a diff, and the diff needs both sides
- Jurisdiction, loosely — some places auto-revoke ex-spouse designations, some don't, and federal-law plans (in the US) can override state rules — all flagged verify-locally; this skill finds the mismatches, a professional resolves the contested ones
Framework: The Audit Rules
- Designations beat wills — audit them like it: the sweep covers every account that passes outside probate; "my will handles it" is the misconception the audit exists to correct. Where the will and a form conflict, flag it loudly and route to the estate attorney — never assume which wins.
- Life events are the staleness clock: each marriage/divorce/birth/death since a form's date is a trigger; the audit walks the timeline and asks "which forms were touched after this?" — the answer is usually none, and that's the finding.
- The red-flag patterns: ex-spouse still named (the headline case) · primary beneficiary deceased with no contingent (the money goes… somewhere — often the estate, defeating the purpose) · minor children named directly (courts and custodians get involved; the fix is jurisdiction-specific — flag it) · "my estate" as beneficiary of a retirement account (can have real tax consequences — flag for a professional) · percentages that don't sum or siblings named unevenly by accident.
- Contingents are half the audit: every account gets a primary and a contingent check — the no-contingent gap is more common than the wrong-primary one, and it fails exactly when both spouses are in the same accident.
- Updates aren't done until confirmed: the checklist ends with written confirmation from each institution (a screenshot of the portal or the confirmation letter, filed with the estate documents) — submitted-but-unrecorded changes are a known failure mode, and the confirmation is the audit's receipt.
Output Format
Beneficiary Audit: [name] — [date]
The Sweep
| Account |
Institution |
Primary on file |
Contingent |
Last touched |
Status |
| [Unknown = the finding; "check the portal" is a task, not a gap to skip] |
|
|
|
|
|
Intent vs. Paperwork
| Account |
The form says |
You intend |
Match? |
🚩 Red Flags
[Each: the account, the pattern, why it bites, the fix — jurisdiction-flagged where rules diverge]
Update Checklist
[Per change: where (portal/form) · what · the confirm-in-writing step · file the confirmation with the estate documents · recheck cadence: every life event + every ~2 years]
Which designation rules apply — auto-revocation on divorce, plan-law overrides, minor-beneficiary handling — varies by jurisdiction and account type; this audit finds mismatches, and contested or tax-sensitive ones belong with an estate attorney or financial professional. Not legal or tax advice.
Quality Checks
Anti-Patterns
1---2name: beneficiary-audit3description: Audit the beneficiary designations that quietly override wills — the account-by-account sweep, the life-event triggers that make them stale, and the coordination check against actual intentions. Use when asked check my beneficiaries, does my 401k go to my ex, do beneficiary forms beat a will, or what should I update after marriage/divorce/a birth. Produces the account sweep list, the stale-designation red flags, the intent-vs-paperwork comparison table, and the update checklist with the verify-in-writing step.4---5
6# Beneficiary Audit Skill
7
8The most important estate document most people have isn't their will — it's a form they filled out on day two of a job in 2016 and never saw again. Retirement accounts, life insurance, and payable-on-death accounts generally pass by *designation*, outside the will entirely: in the classic disaster, the will says everything to the new spouse, the 401k form still says the ex, and (jurisdiction-varying, but often) **the form wins.** This skill runs the audit: sweep every designation-carrying account, compare paper against intent, and flag the stale ones before they become someone's litigation.
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10## What This Skill Produces
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12- **The sweep list** — every account type that carries designations, checked or marked unknown
13- **The comparison table** — what the paperwork says vs. what the person actually intends, per account
14- **The red-flag list** — ex-spouses, deceased primaries, missing contingents, minors named directly, "estate" as beneficiary — each with why it bites
15- **The update checklist** — what to change where, and the confirm-in-writing step that closes the loop
16
17## Required Inputs
18
19Ask for these if not provided:
20- **The account inventory** — employer retirement plans (every past employer — the forgotten 401k with the forgotten designation is the classic), IRAs, life insurance (employer group + private), pensions, bank/brokerage POD/TOD registrations, HSAs
21- **The life since the forms** — marriages, divorces, births, deaths, estrangements — each is a staleness trigger, and the audit walks them chronologically against the forms
22- **Actual current intent** — who should get what, stated plainly; the audit is a diff, and the diff needs both sides
23- **Jurisdiction, loosely** — some places auto-revoke ex-spouse designations, some don't, and federal-law plans (in the US) can override state rules — all flagged verify-locally; this skill finds the mismatches, a professional resolves the contested ones
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25## Framework: The Audit Rules
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271. **Designations beat wills — audit them like it:** the sweep covers every account that passes outside probate; "my will handles it" is the misconception the audit exists to correct. Where the will and a form conflict, flag it loudly and route to the estate attorney — never assume which wins.
282. **Life events are the staleness clock:** each marriage/divorce/birth/death since a form's date is a trigger; the audit walks the timeline and asks "which forms were touched after this?" — the answer is usually none, and that's the finding.
293. **The red-flag patterns:** ex-spouse still named (the headline case) · primary beneficiary deceased with no contingent (the money goes… somewhere — often the estate, defeating the purpose) · minor children named directly (courts and custodians get involved; the fix is jurisdiction-specific — flag it) · "my estate" as beneficiary of a retirement account (can have real tax consequences — flag for a professional) · percentages that don't sum or siblings named unevenly by accident.
304. **Contingents are half the audit:** every account gets a primary *and* a contingent check — the no-contingent gap is more common than the wrong-primary one, and it fails exactly when both spouses are in the same accident.
315. **Updates aren't done until confirmed:** the checklist ends with written confirmation from each institution (a screenshot of the portal or the confirmation letter, filed with the estate documents) — submitted-but-unrecorded changes are a known failure mode, and the confirmation is the audit's receipt.
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33## Output Format
34
35# Beneficiary Audit: [name] — [date]
36
37## The Sweep
38| Account | Institution | Primary on file | Contingent | Last touched | Status |
39|---|---|---|---|---|---|
40[Unknown = the finding; "check the portal" is a task, not a gap to skip]
41
42## Intent vs. Paperwork
43| Account | The form says | You intend | Match? |
44|---|---|---|---|
45
46## 🚩 Red Flags
47[Each: the account, the pattern, why it bites, the fix — jurisdiction-flagged where rules diverge]
48
49## Update Checklist
50[Per change: where (portal/form) · what · the confirm-in-writing step · file the confirmation with the estate documents · recheck cadence: every life event + every ~2 years]
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52> Which designation rules apply — auto-revocation on divorce, plan-law overrides, minor-beneficiary handling — varies by jurisdiction and account type; this audit finds mismatches, and contested or tax-sensitive ones belong with an estate attorney or financial professional. Not legal or tax advice.
53
54## Quality Checks
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56- [ ] The sweep includes past-employer plans and group life insurance, not just current accounts
57- [ ] Every account is checked for a contingent, not just a primary
58- [ ] The life-event timeline was walked against form dates
59- [ ] Every red flag names its consequence, not just its presence
60- [ ] The checklist ends in written confirmations, filed
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62## Anti-Patterns
63
64- [ ] Do not treat the will as covering designation accounts — the opposite assumption is the audit's founding fact
65- [ ] Do not skip "unknown" accounts — unknown is the most common and most dangerous status
66- [ ] Do not declare which document wins a conflict — flag loudly, route to the professional
67- [ ] Do not name minors directly as the fix for anything — that pattern is itself a flag
68- [ ] Do not close the audit at "submitted" — unconfirmed updates are how this audit gets needed twice