Screen-Time Detox
Deleting every app on Monday and reinstalling by Friday isn't a plan. Compulsive phone use is a design problem (apps engineered to hook) plus a habit loop, so the fix is design and habit: add friction where you overuse, remove the cues, and give the restless itch somewhere else to go — with a realistic target, not a joyless total ban.
What This Skill Produces
- A trigger read — the specific apps/times/situations driving your overuse (bored, anxious, bed, queues)
- Friction changes — make the problem apps harder to reach (log-outs, grayscale, home-screen removal, limits)
- Environment fixes — phone out of the bedroom, notifications culled, charging away from you
- Replacement habits — what to do with the itch, so you're removing and replacing
- Sticky boundaries — phone-free times/zones and settings, framed as defaults not constant willpower
- A realistic goal — reduction and intention, not an all-or-nothing purge
Required Inputs
Ask for these if not provided:
- The problem — which apps/behaviors, and roughly how much time
- The triggers — when and why you reach for it (boredom, stress, habit, bed, notifications)
- Your goal — cut total time, reclaim mornings/evenings, stop a specific app, be more present
- What you've tried — and where it failed
- Non-negotiables — apps you need for work/life (don't nuke these)
Framework: Friction, Environment, Replacement
- Target the worst offenders. Don't detox everything — find the two or three apps/moments that eat the most time and aim there.
- Add friction. Log out, remove from the home screen, turn on grayscale, set app limits — every extra tap breaks the autopilot reach.
- Kill the cues. Cut non-human notifications, keep the phone out of the bedroom, charge it across the room — most pickups are prompted, not chosen.
- Replace, don't just remove. Give the restlessness an outlet (a book by the couch, a walk, a hobby) or the itch just finds another app.
- Set defaults, not willpower. Phone-free zones/times (meals, first/last hour) work because they're rules, not moment-to-moment battles. Aim for realistic reduction.
Output Format
Screen-time reset: [main problem] · goal: [x]
Worst triggers: [top 2–3 apps/moments].
Add friction: [log out / off home screen / grayscale / app limits] for [apps].
Fix environment: notifications [cull] · bedroom [phone out] · charge [away].
Replace the itch: [specific alternative for the common trigger].
Boundaries: [phone-free times/zones — e.g. no phone first/last hour, meals].
Target: [realistic reduction], not zero.
Quality Checks
Anti-Patterns
- All-or-nothing purges that rebound within days.
- Relying on willpower against apps engineered to hook.
- Removing without replacing — the itch migrates.
- Nuking work/essential apps and making the plan impractical.
- Ignoring notifications and bedroom phone — the biggest cues.
Example Trigger Phrases
- "I spend way too long on my phone — help me cut it down."
- "I'm addicted to scrolling before bed."
- "Help me use social media less without deleting it entirely."
- "A realistic digital detox plan, not going cold turkey."
- "How do I stop reaching for my phone every time I'm bored?"
1---2name: screen-time-detox3description: Cut compulsive screen and phone use with a workable plan — friction, environment, and replacement habits — instead of relying on willpower or deleting everything. Use when asked to reduce my screen time, I'm addicted to my phone, help me use my phone less, or a digital detox plan. Produces a read on your worst triggers, targeted friction and environment changes, replacement activities for the itch, boundary settings that stick, and a realistic goal — not an all-or-nothing purge that fails by Tuesday.4---5
6# Screen-Time Detox
7
8Deleting every app on Monday and reinstalling by Friday isn't a plan. Compulsive phone use is a design problem (apps engineered to hook) plus a habit loop, so the fix is design and habit: add friction where you overuse, remove the cues, and give the restless itch somewhere else to go — with a realistic target, not a joyless total ban.
9
10## What This Skill Produces
11
12- **A trigger read** — the specific apps/times/situations driving your overuse (bored, anxious, bed, queues)
13- **Friction changes** — make the problem apps harder to reach (log-outs, grayscale, home-screen removal, limits)
14- **Environment fixes** — phone out of the bedroom, notifications culled, charging away from you
15- **Replacement habits** — what to do with the itch, so you're removing *and* replacing
16- **Sticky boundaries** — phone-free times/zones and settings, framed as defaults not constant willpower
17- **A realistic goal** — reduction and intention, not an all-or-nothing purge
18
19## Required Inputs
20
21Ask for these if not provided:
22- **The problem** — which apps/behaviors, and roughly how much time
23- **The triggers** — when and why you reach for it (boredom, stress, habit, bed, notifications)
24- **Your goal** — cut total time, reclaim mornings/evenings, stop a specific app, be more present
25- **What you've tried** — and where it failed
26- **Non-negotiables** — apps you need for work/life (don't nuke these)
27
28## Framework: Friction, Environment, Replacement
29
301. **Target the worst offenders.** Don't detox everything — find the two or three apps/moments that eat the most time and aim there.
312. **Add friction.** Log out, remove from the home screen, turn on grayscale, set app limits — every extra tap breaks the autopilot reach.
323. **Kill the cues.** Cut non-human notifications, keep the phone out of the bedroom, charge it across the room — most pickups are prompted, not chosen.
334. **Replace, don't just remove.** Give the restlessness an outlet (a book by the couch, a walk, a hobby) or the itch just finds another app.
345. **Set defaults, not willpower.** Phone-free zones/times (meals, first/last hour) work because they're rules, not moment-to-moment battles. Aim for realistic reduction.
35
36## Output Format
37
38### Screen-time reset: [main problem] · goal: [x]
39
40**Worst triggers:** [top 2–3 apps/moments].
41
42**Add friction:** [log out / off home screen / grayscale / app limits] for [apps].
43**Fix environment:** notifications [cull] · bedroom [phone out] · charge [away].
44**Replace the itch:** [specific alternative for the common trigger].
45**Boundaries:** [phone-free times/zones — e.g. no phone first/last hour, meals].
46**Target:** [realistic reduction], not zero.
47
48## Quality Checks
49- [ ] Targets the specific worst offenders, not a blanket ban
50- [ ] Uses friction and environment changes, not just willpower
51- [ ] Cuts notification/cue triggers
52- [ ] Pairs removal with replacement activities
53- [ ] Sets realistic goals and preserves needed apps
54
55## Anti-Patterns
56- **All-or-nothing purges** that rebound within days.
57- **Relying on willpower** against apps engineered to hook.
58- **Removing without replacing** — the itch migrates.
59- **Nuking work/essential apps** and making the plan impractical.
60- **Ignoring notifications and bedroom phone** — the biggest cues.
61
62## Example Trigger Phrases
63- "I spend way too long on my phone — help me cut it down."
64- "I'm addicted to scrolling before bed."
65- "Help me use social media less without deleting it entirely."
66- "A realistic digital detox plan, not going cold turkey."
67- "How do I stop reaching for my phone every time I'm bored?"