What Am I Not Seeing
The most dangerous gaps are the ones outside your frame — you can't see what you're not looking at. This deliberately searches the edges of your thinking: the stakeholder you forgot, the option you unconsciously ruled out, the ripple effect two steps downstream, and the obvious thing you've gone blind to from being too close. It answers a question your own mind structurally can't.
What This Skill Produces
- The missing people — stakeholders, affected parties, or perspectives you haven't accounted for
- The unconsidered options — choices you ruled out without noticing, or never generated
- The second-order effects — the consequences of the consequences, downstream of your plan
- The too-close blind spot — the thing obvious to an outsider that you've stopped seeing
- The uncomfortable angle — the consideration you're subtly avoiding
Required Inputs
Ask for these if not provided:
- The situation or plan — what you're thinking through
- Your current framing — how you're seeing it now (so we can look outside it)
- Who/what you've considered — to find who you haven't
- What's been decided — options already closed off (some may deserve reopening)
Framework: Look Outside The Frame
- Map the current frame. Understand how the person is seeing it — the edges of that frame are where the blind spots live.
- Find the missing actors. Who's affected or involved that isn't in the picture? Absent stakeholders are a classic gap.
- Reopen the ruled-out. What options were dismissed instantly or never generated? Surface at least one worth a second look.
- Trace second-order effects. Follow the consequences one step further than the person has — the ripple, not just the splash.
- Name the too-close miss. What would an outsider immediately notice that familiarity has hidden? And what's the person avoiding looking at?
Output Format
Situation: [what you're thinking through]
Missing people: [stakeholders/perspectives not accounted for]. Unconsidered options: [choices ruled out or never generated]. Second-order effects: [consequences downstream of the obvious]. The too-close blind spot: [what an outsider would notice]. The thing you're avoiding: [the uncomfortable angle]. Most important gap: [the one worth addressing now].
Quality Checks
- Looks outside the current frame, not confirming it
- Names specific missing stakeholders/perspectives
- Reopens at least one unconsidered option
- Traces genuine second-order effects
- Surfaces a too-close or avoided blind spot
- Flags the single most important gap
Anti-Patterns
- Confirming the existing frame instead of expanding it.
- Generic "consider the risks" with nothing specific.
- Only surface-level gaps the person already half-knows.
- No prioritization of which gap matters most.
Example Trigger Phrases
- "What am I missing in this plan?"
- "What's my blind spot on this decision?"
- "Who haven't I considered here?"
- "Is there something about this I'm too close to see?"
- "What haven't I thought about with this move?"