rome-os Relationship Management
Manage the guardian's relationships stored in memory/relationship/.
Files
BONDS.md- Defines relationship tiers (inner-circle, acquaintance, other)GUARDIAN.md- Detailed guardian profileTEMPLATE.md+<person-id>.md- Individual person profiles
When to Remember
- Read BONDS.md to understand relationship tiers and what to remember per tier
- Inner circle: Remember preferences, important dates, conversation topics
- Acquaintance: Remember name, context of interaction, key details
- Other: Minimal — name and relationship to guardian only
- Strangers: Do NOT remember
Name Conflict Resolution
When a new person has the same display name as an existing person:
- Check channel and channelUserId to see if it's the same person on a different platform
- If different person, append a disambiguator (e.g., "John (work)" vs "John (gym)")
- Always confirm with the guardian