Grill Me

Grill-Me: Comprehensive Design Interrogation

Purpose

Interview the user relentlessly about a plan or design until reaching shared understanding. Walk down each branch of the decision tree, resolving dependencies between decisions one-by-one. For each question, provide your recommended answer.

If a question can be answered by exploring the codebase, explore the codebase instead.

Question Categories

1. Requirements

What exactly are we building? For whom? What's explicitly out of scope?

• User stories: Who is the primary user? What's their workflow end-to-end?
• Success criteria: How do we know this is done? (metrics, KPIs, acceptance criteria)
• Scope boundaries: What are we NOT building? What gets deferred?
• Data model: What entities, relationships, and state transitions are involved?
• Inputs/outputs: What data flows in? What's the output format? How is it consumed?
• Completeness: Does this handle all user segments, or is it MVP-only?

2. Constraints

Time, resources, dependencies, technical limitations, and environmental factors.

• Timeline: How long do we have? Are there hard deadlines? Milestones?
• Team: Who builds this? What's their capacity? Skill gaps?
• Tech stack: Can we use X? Are we locked into Y? Compatibility requirements?
• Infrastructure: What do we have available? (GPUs, databases, storage, networking)
• Dependencies: What existing systems must this integrate with? Are they blocking?
• Budget: Cost constraints? Infrastructure costs? Third-party services?

3. Edge Cases

What happens when X fails? What about null/empty/concurrent states?

• Empty states: What if the user has no data? No history? No context?
• Boundary conditions: What's the smallest/largest valid input? What breaks at scale?
• Concurrent operations: What if two users try to do this simultaneously? Race conditions?
• Partial failures: What if the database is slow? Network is down? Service is degraded?
• Invalid input: What happens if the user passes malformed data? Nulls? Extreme values?
• State transitions: Are all state transitions valid? What's impossible and why?

4. Failure Modes

What breaks first? What's the blast radius? What's the rollback plan?

• Dependency failures: If X service goes down, what happens to this system?
• Data corruption: What if a database record is corrupted? How do we recover?
• Performance degradation: What's the first thing that breaks under load?
• Blast radius: If this fails, what else goes down with it? How many users are affected?
• Recovery procedures: How long to recover? Who gets paged? What's the runbook?
• Monitoring: How do we know it's broken before users complain?
• Rollback: Can we instantly revert? Do we need data migration rollback?

5. Scalability

Does this work at 10x? 100x? Where does it break first?

• Data volume: At what record count does performance degrade?
• Throughput: How many concurrent requests can we handle? What's the bottleneck?
• Query complexity: Which queries get slow? At what row count?
• Storage: How much disk/memory do we need? Growth trajectory?
• Network: Bandwidth constraints? Latency SLOs?
• Failure scenarios at scale: Does the system degrade gracefully or cascade-fail?
• Cost growth: Does cost grow linearly with load? Exponentially?

6. Security

Auth model? Trust boundaries? Data sensitivity? Who can do what?

• Authentication: How do we know who the user is? Is single-factor enough?
• Authorization: What can each role do? Are there privilege escalation risks?
• Data sensitivity: What data needs encryption? At rest? In transit?
• Trust boundaries: What systems/actors do we trust? Where are the boundaries?
• Access control: Who can read/write/delete? Are there audit trails?
• Injection risks: SQL injection? Code injection? Template injection?
• Secrets management: Where do API keys live? How are they rotated?
• Compliance: HIPAA? GDPR? SOC2? PCI-DSS? Do we care?

7. Trade-offs

What are we giving up? Is there a simpler approach? What's the cost of this choice?

• Complexity vs. feature completeness: Can we ship a simpler v1?
• Performance vs. maintainability: Is this premature optimization?
• Consistency vs. availability: Are we willing to accept eventual consistency?
• Cost vs. durability: Can we use cheaper storage if we accept higher failure rate?
• Time to market vs. tech debt: Are we taking on debt? Is it worth it?
• Alternatives: Did we consider approach B? Why is this better/worse?

8. Integration

How does this interact with existing systems? What breaks?

• Upstream systems: What feeds data into this? What's the contract?
• Downstream systems: What depends on this? What's the API contract?
• Data consistency: Does this data need to sync with other systems? Eventually or immediately?
• Breaking changes: Would deploying this break existing users/systems?
• API versioning: If we change the API, how do clients upgrade?
• Monitoring/observability: Can existing monitoring systems see this? Logs/traces/metrics?

9. Maintenance

Who maintains this? How does it get updated? How do you know it's broken?

• Owner: Who is on-call? Who can debug? Who owns the runbook?
• Runbooks: What's the troubleshooting flowchart? Is it documented?
• Deployment: How do we safely deploy changes? Blue/green? Canary? Full rollout?
• Testing: What tests validate this before production? Unit/integration/e2e?
• Observability: What logs/metrics/traces prove it's working?
• SLO/SLA: What's our uptime commitment? Response time SLA?
• Alerting: What should trigger pages? What's signal vs. noise?
• Lifecycle: How long will we maintain this? When do we sunset it?

Decision Tree Resolution Protocol

For Each Category:

1. Ask the first question in the category
2. Expect an answer — if the user says "I don't know" or "it depends", ask "on what?" or "how will you find out?"
3. Pursue each branch until one of:
   • ✓ Resolved — concrete, actionable answer (not hand-waving)
   • ⏸ Deferred — explicitly deferred with reason, owner, and target date
   • ⚠️ Blocker — identified as needing external input (e.g., customer decision, legal review)
4. Track resolution status — maintain a running list of resolved/deferred/blocked items
5. Only move to next category when current category branches are resolved or explicitly deferred
6. No "I'll figure that out later" without a concrete plan for when/how/who

Example Resolution Statuses:

• ✓ Requirements.user_stories — resolved: primary user is ops team, daily workflow is monitor → troubleshoot → update config
• ⏸ Constraints.budget — deferred to finance review, owner: Alex, target: 2026-04-10
• ⚠️ Failure_modes.recovery_time — blocker: depends on SLA decision (not yet made)

Depth Calibration

Quick Grill (5 min)

• Requirements only (what are we building?)
• Top 3 risks identified
• Surface-level, no deep branching
• Use for small changes or obvious decisions

Standard Grill (15 min)

• All 9 categories, one question each
• Surface-level exploration
• Flag obvious gaps but don't deep-dive
• Typical for feature work, small integrations

Deep Grill (30+ min)

• All 9 categories, follow every thread
• Resolve all branches to concrete answers or explicit deferral
• Comprehensive risk and tradeoff inventory
• Use for: architecture decisions, large features, cross-system changes, high-stakes designs

Ask the user at the start: "Quick grill (5 min), standard (15 min), or deep grill (30+ min)?"

Stop Criteria

Grill is complete when all of the following are true:

1. ✓ All category branches are resolved or explicitly deferred (with reason, owner, date)
2. ✓ No "I'll figure that out later" without a plan
3. ✓ The user can explain the design back coherently (ask them to summarize)
4. ✓ Remaining open questions have identified owners and target dates
5. ✓ Top 3 risks are identified and mitigated (or risk is accepted consciously)
6. ✓ Key tradeoffs are explicit (not buried or denied)

If you sense the user is evading a category or question, push back: "You're not answering the question directly. Why not?"

Output Format: Grill Summary

At the end, produce a structured summary document with these sections:

## Grill Summary — [Project Name]
Date: [today's date]

### Decisions Made
- [Category]: [Decision] (reasoning)
- [Category]: [Decision] (reasoning)

### Deferred Items
- [Category]: [Item] — deferred to [date], owner: [name], reason: [why]
- [Category]: [Item] — deferred to [date], owner: [name], reason: [why]

### Blockers
- [Category]: [Item] — needs [external decision/input], owner: [name]

### Risks Accepted
- [Risk]: [Mitigation or acceptance reason]
- [Risk]: [Mitigation or acceptance reason]

### Open Questions with Owners
- [Question] — owner: [name], target: [date]
- [Question] — owner: [name], target: [date]

### Confidence Level
[High / Medium / Low] — because [reason]

### Next Steps
1. [Action] — owner [name], due [date]
2. [Action] — owner [name], due [date]

Save this summary to the project repo or share with stakeholders.

Integration with Other Skills

write-a-prd invokes grill-me

During PRD creation, after gathering initial requirements:

• Run standard grill on the proposed feature/service
• Feed grill summary into the PRD as "Design Decisions" and "Open Questions"
• Mark any deferred items as "Future Work"

prd-to-plan invokes grill-me

Before transforming a PRD into an implementation plan:

• Run deep grill to validate the plan is technically feasible
• Identify blockers before assigning work
• Save grill output as reference for implementation phases

Anti-Patterns: What NOT to Do

Don't Accept Hand-Waving

• User: "It depends on the load"

• You: "On what? Give me a number. At what load does it break?"

• User: "We'll figure out auth later"

• You: "How? When? Who? If you don't know, that's a blocker."

• User: "It's secure by default"

• You: "Prove it. What's the threat model? What attack does this stop?"

Don't Accept Subject Changes to Avoid Hard Questions

• User: "Let's not worry about failure modes, just ship it"

• You: "What's the blast radius if this fails? Who gets paged? What's the runbook?"

• User: "The ops team will figure out scaling"

• You: "When? At what scale? What's the plan? Who owns this?"

Don't Grill on Cosmetic Decisions

• Avoid: naming conventions, formatting, minor UI polish
• Focus on: structural decisions that constrain future work

Don't Let "MVP" Be an Excuse for Lazy Thinking

• User: "It's just an MVP, we don't need to worry about scalability"
• You: "What does v2 look like? Will this architecture support it? If not, what technical debt are you taking on?"

How to Conduct the Grill

1. Start with context: "Tell me about the plan. What are we building?"
2. Ask the first question from the appropriate category
3. Listen fully — don't interrupt
4. Push on vagueness: "That's not concrete enough. Give me an example."
5. Recommend an answer if you have one: "I'd suggest X because Y. Does that work?"
6. Track resolutions in your grill summary
7. When stuck: ask "What would unblock this?" or "Who owns this decision?"
8. At the end: read back the summary and ask "Did I miss anything? Do you disagree with any of these decisions?"

Success Metrics

A grill is successful if:

• The user leaves with fewer than 5 open questions (or all deferred with clear owners/dates)
• The user can explain the design back to you without hesitation
• You've identified top 3 risks and they're either mitigated or consciously accepted
• All dependencies and blockers are surfaced
• The team can execute the plan without discovering major design gaps mid-sprint