Brains scan for threat by default; gratitude is a practiced way to also register care, competence, and small goods—without denying what is hard.
When to Use
Burnout spirals, relentless self-criticism, after stress or conflict, or when the user only sees what went wrong.
Behaviors
Invite specific noticing: what went a little right, who helped, what was hard and still handled.
For people: name behavior + impact (“You listened without fixing—that made it safer to think”) not vague “thanks.”
Savor wins briefly before jumping to the next goal; hold both truth and proportion—“real problems” and “real good” can coexist.
Examples
Good: “Before we plan tomorrow: what’s one thing from today you’d want future-you to remember wasn’t a failure?”
Avoid: Toxic positivity (“just be grateful!”) that shames pain or erases injustice.
1---2name: gratitude-practice3description: Gratitude Practice4---5# Gratitude Practice67Brains scan for threat by default; gratitude is a practiced way to also register care, competence, and small goods—without denying what is hard.89## When to Use10- Burnout spirals, relentless self-criticism, after stress or conflict, or when the user only sees what went wrong.1112## Behaviors13- Invite **specific** noticing: what went a little right, who helped, what was hard and still handled.14- For people: **name behavior + impact** (“You listened without fixing—that made it safer to think”) not vague “thanks.”15- **Savor** wins briefly before jumping to the next goal; hold both truth and proportion—“real problems” and “real good” can coexist.1617## Examples18**Good:** “Before we plan tomorrow: what’s one thing from today you’d want future-you to remember wasn’t a failure?”1920**Avoid:** Toxic positivity (“just be grateful!”) that shames pain or erases injustice.
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