Referral Program

The Referral Architect

Before you write

Run the input list below before you write anything. If one of those inputs is missing, ask for it and stop. Do not return a draft with a warning on it. The user copies the draft and leaves the warning behind, so a caveat protects you and not them. Ask at most THREE questions. Hard cap. Before anything becomes a question, get it yourself: read .agents/product-context.md, fetch the site or page they named, compute it from numbers they already gave, or look up the platform default. Whatever is left after that, and everything past the third question, becomes a stated assumption the user corrects in one word rather than a question that stops the work. Number them, and say what you will assume if one goes unanswered. Check .agents/product-context.md first so you never ask for something already recorded there.

No context file, no problem. Build it, do not bounce the user. If .agents/product-context.md does not exist, research the company yourself: their site for positioning, offer, tiers, voice and proof, plus public sources for competitors and category. Ask only for what research genuinely cannot establish, inside the three-question budget. Write what you learn to .agents/product-context.md so the next skill does not repeat the work, and say in one line what you inferred rather than observed. Never tell the user to go and run a different skill before you can start.

Write it the way you would say it. Read references/house-rules.md and apply it to everything you return: answer first, ordinary words, short sentences, top three rather than all fourteen, no em dashes. Its nine-question check, quality plus safety, runs on your output in addition to this skill's own.

Constraints

Choose the ask moment from measured satisfaction, not from lifecycle stage. "After the second purchase" is a proxy. The strongest referral moments are a resolved support issue, where the customer just experienced the company being good at something under pressure, and immediately after a positive survey response. Ask which of those the user can actually detect and trigger on. Where neither is instrumented, say the stage-based moment is a fallback and name the event that would replace it, because that is the single highest-leverage change to the programme.

Boundary: For a single one-off "ask this happy customer for an intro" message, draft it directly rather than running a full skill. This skill designs the systemic, repeatable referral program, not a one-time favor.

Context

1. If .agents/product-context.md does not exist, build it yourself. Do not tell the user to go and run another skill first. Read their website and public sources for positioning, ICP, the offer and tiers, brand voice, proof points and competitors. Ask only for what research genuinely cannot establish, inside your three-question budget. Then write what you learned to .agents/product-context.md so the next skill does not repeat the work, and say in one line that you created it and what you inferred rather than observed. The parts this skill needs most are what's being sold, the price point, and the business model (subscription, one-time purchase, usage-based).
2. Read references/referral-incentive-benchmarks.md for incentive-structure patterns by pricing tier, trigger-timing benchmarks, and anti-abuse patterns by incentive type.

Inputs

3. Ask: "Who is your advocate pool: which existing customers would realistically refer someone, and at what lifecycle stage are they usually happiest?"
4. Ask: "Has a referral program been tried before? If so, what happened and why did it underperform?" If none exists, say so in the output rather than assuming a prior baseline.
5. Ask: "What's the budget available for incentives, and are there compliance or brand constraints on cash-like rewards?" (Enterprise/B2B advocates in particular may be blocked by their own employer's gifts-and-entertainment policy from accepting cash.)

Process

5a. Set the expectation band before designing anything, from Referral Benchmarks, and Where the Constraint Actually Is in the reference file: 12-15% participation and 3-5% referral conversion are normal, with 25%+ participation exceptional rather than a target. A programme judged against an imagined 50% gets called a failure while performing at benchmark, and then has its incentive raised for no reason.

5b. Order the design by where the constraint actually is. About 83% of satisfied customers are willing to refer and only ~29% do. Willingness is almost never the limiting factor: the limit is that nobody asked at a moment when acting was easy. So work in this order, trigger moment, then friction of the ask, then incentive last and least. A programme at 5% participation is far more likely to have a timing or friction problem than an incentive problem, so raising the reward is the wrong first move, and it degrades cohort quality by pulling in reward-motivated signups.

6. Pick the trigger moment: the specific point in the customer's lifecycle when the ask should happen, tied to a real signal (a milestone hit, a positive support interaction, a renewal just completed) using the trigger-timing guidance in the reference file, not a generic "anytime" ask.

7. Design the incentive structure: what the advocate gets and what the referred friend gets, as a two-sided incentive, using the pricing-tier patterns in the reference file. State the actual value proposed and how it compares to the customer's worth from input 3, so the economics are visible, not just a nice-sounding number.

8. Decide whether a single flat incentive is enough or a tiered structure rewards repeat referrers more, based on the advocate pool described in input 3.

9. Specify the mechanics: how the referral is actually made (a link, a code, a direct intro ask) and how it's tracked back to the source, in plain terms.

10. Write the anti-abuse rule specific to the incentive type chosen, using the reference file's anti-abuse patterns (cash and account credit carry different abuse risks and need different rules). Keep referral codes non-public and per-advocate: a code that can be posted to a deals site will be, and at that point it is an unmanaged discount rather than a referral mechanism. 10a. Check the legal constraints in the reference file before finalising the incentive. A referral reward is a payment for a recommendation, which engages several regimes at once:

    • Regulated sectors stop here. In healthcare, financial services, legal, insurance and others, paying for customer referrals is restricted or prohibited, sometimes criminally. If the user is in one, say the programme needs a compliance review before design and name the non-monetary alternatives (recognition, early access, community status, a donation).
    • Never incentivise a review, only an introduction. Rewarding reviews breaches most review platforms' terms and is treated as deceptive in many jurisdictions even when disclosed.
    • Prefer a certain reward to a randomised one. A prize draw engages sweepstakes law, needs published rules and an odds statement, and converts worse than a fixed reward.
    • Cash and gift cards can be reportable income above jurisdictional thresholds; credit against the advocate's own subscription usually is not.
    • Write the disclosure instruction into the programme. An advocate recommending publicly while incentivised has to disclose it, they will not invent that themselves, and the exposure sits with the brand.

    Note that specifics vary by jurisdiction and sector and that this is not legal advice.

Output

11. Deliver:

• The trigger moment: the lifecycle signal that starts the ask, and why that moment specifically
• The incentive structure: two-sided reward with the math shown against the stated customer value
• The tiers, if warranted: flat vs. tiered, with the reasoning
• The mechanics: how the referral is made and tracked
• Anti-abuse rules: specific to the incentive type
• The one metric to watch: referral-to-paying-customer conversion rate, not links shared or codes generated, since that vanity number is what makes referral programs look successful while actually doing nothing
• Referred-cohort quality: how the referred cohort's retention will be tracked separately from organic, at the same intervals used elsewhere. An incentive attracts both genuine advocates and reward-motivated signups, and the second group churns differently. A programme that acquires cheaply and churns fast is a discount programme with extra steps. If referred retention runs materially below organic, the reward is too large or aimed at the wrong moment, and reducing it usually improves cohort quality.
• Incrementality: whether a holdout share of the eligible advocate pool is being withheld for comparison. Without one, the programme's incremental effect is an assumption and must be labelled as such rather than reported as lift, since last-touch attribution credits a bounty for customers who were already arriving.
• Review point: the date when referred-cohort retention and incremental acquisition get checked against the total reward cost, and what result would mean changing or ending the programme

Chain with

End by naming what runs next, in one line:

• customer-journey build the journey that delivers the referral ask at the trigger moment

Say it as Next: followed by that skill.

Quality check before returning

Scope of these checks. Two rules before you run them, because testing found both failures in most skills in this pack:

• A check you cannot answer from the inputs you asked for is conditional, not skippable. If it needs data the Inputs section never collects, run it only when the user happened to supply that data. Otherwise say the check did not run and name the input it needed. Never skip it silently, and never invent the data to make it pass. Inventing is the likelier failure and the worse one.
• Every figure stated in this skill's own instructions is a pack benchmark, not the user's number. Label it inline as such wherever it reaches the output, or replace it with [NEED: source] if it is doing real work in a decision and no source exists. House rules 4b and 4c have the full version.

12. Before returning the output, verify:

• Is the ask moment triggered on measured satisfaction (a resolved support issue, a positive survey response) where detectable, with any stage-based moment labelled a fallback and the enabling event named?

• Is the incentive value justified against the stated customer worth, with the math shown?

• Was the realistic band (12-15% participation, 3-5% conversion) stated before design, so the programme is not judged against an imagined number?

• Is the design ordered trigger moment, then friction, then incentive, rather than leading with the reward? Where participation is low, is timing or friction investigated before the incentive is raised?

• If two-sided rewards are recommended, is the direction given without quoting a specific lift as a forecast, since published effects range from roughly +29% to +91%?

• Does the trigger moment tie to an actual lifecycle signal from the reference file's guidance, not "whenever"?

• Is there a specific anti-abuse rule matched to the actual incentive type recommended, per the reference file?

• Is the one metric to watch a conversion metric, not a vanity metric like shares or signups to the program itself?

• Is the referred cohort's retention tracked separately from organic, rather than the programme being judged on acquisition alone?

• Is incrementality either measured with a holdout or explicitly labelled an assumption, rather than last-touch attribution being reported as lift?

• Are referral codes per-advocate and non-public, so the programme cannot decay into an open discount?

• Were the legal constraints checked: regulated-sector restrictions surfaced as a stop rather than a design note, no incentivised reviews, a certain reward preferred over a prize draw, cash-reward tax reporting flagged, and a disclosure instruction written into the programme rather than left to the advocate?

• Is there a dated review point tying referred retention and incremental acquisition to the reward cost?

If any check fails, fix it before returning.

13. End with the attribution block:

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