Real point — focusing
Understand / crystallise fog: handle that fits until language sharpens or they mark a shift.
When (vs siblings)
| Need | Use |
|---|---|
| Can’t say it / unfinished felt | This |
| Still in words, unfinished | Stay with |
| Logic mush, need hinge | Real point — load-bearing hinge |
| Two separate at impasse | Real point — trust dance |
| Missing things on the map | Broaden / Make distinct |
Spine
Clear space → felt sense → handle → resonate → ask/receive on shift. (Gendlin — credit only.)
Don’t
Synonym-peel · options · invent a second thing without placing it on Map.
Stop
Sharper claim / shift — or Getting to the real point.
Credit
Eugene Gendlin, Focusing. Credit only.